The language we use in the exam room should convey our respect for patients. Before discussing sensitive topics with patients, clinicians should take care to establish rapport. Supportive, non-judgmental, and caring words can allow patients to feel heard and understood. Inclusive phrasing makes no assumptions about sexual orientation or gender identity.
Attention to language is particularly important when performing a procedure, providing pelvic exams, miscarriage management, and options counseling. Below is a list of some common language we have heard and suggested alternatives. If you have any examples you’d like to share, please send them to us!
A Guide to Taking A Sexual History. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website. https://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment/sexualhistory.pdf. Updated March 14, 2014. Accessed October 4, 2018.
Sexual Health and Your Patients: A Provider’s Guide. National Coalition for Sexual Health website. https://nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org/tools/for-healthcare-providers/document/ProviderGuide.pdf. Published 2016. Accessed October 4, 2018.
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